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09-15-2009, 12:12 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Moto: 06 ZX6R
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I knew it was time...but it's still hard.
Got the call this evening that my grandmother (Dolly) passed this evening.
 I had sat with her for about an hour after work tonight. She was a shadow of who she was and it's a blessing. I've never had to deal with this and I'm not doing the best. Logically I know it was time and it was a blessing. But emotionally I just want Dolly back. I've also been asked to say the eulogy. NO idea where to start with this one.
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09-15-2009, 12:16 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Imported from Detroit
Moto: 2009 HD Street Classic
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I have had to do this with a grandmother that was grand and tought me many things. I remember I held myself together right till the end... then I freakin lost it. And I wont even start with the loss of my dad.
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09-15-2009, 12:16 AM
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Waiting for Hello Kitty!
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Arizona
Moto: Nothing ATM, which makes me want to cry.
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So sorry to hear about this Kell.
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09-15-2009, 12:18 AM
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Hold mah beer!
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: 80 Miles South of Moto Heaven
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Sorry to hear, Kell. RIP Dolly
Just speak from the heart for the Eulogy. Write down a few stories that you have from growing up that really just shows her how you remember her and the life she had.
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09-15-2009, 12:20 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Anaheim, CA
Moto: 2009 Kawi ZX6R
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RIP..
My grandmother was named Dolly as well.
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09-15-2009, 01:16 AM
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Imported from Detroit
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Michigan
Moto: 2001 Suzuki TL1000R
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Im sorry Kell. The best way I dealt with my Grandfathers passing was to celebrate the life He led and the people he touched. Try that with your Grams, remember the good times and share what made you happy with her, learning to cook or sew or vacations or how she helped you read or the days on the farm or whatever you had with her. Have other people share the good experiences and put that in the eulogy. You and your family are in our thoughts.
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09-15-2009, 01:17 AM
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Pug Queen
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Las Vegas, NV
Moto: DR200, SV650
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I'm sorry Kel
My condolences to you and your family. |
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09-15-2009, 01:24 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Raleigh, NC
Moto: CBR1000
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Sorry to hear about your loss, Kelly.
For her Eulogy, just try speaking from your heart as mentioned above. When you think about Dolly, what are the first 3 things that come to mind? What are a couple things she taught you along the way? With just those few catalysts and your (grammatically correct  ) writing skills, I'm sure you'll write something very moving.
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09-15-2009, 01:20 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Sumter, SC
Moto: '01 Spirit 750
Posts: 1,535
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I'm sorry for your loss. :/ I know it's tough getting over something like this.. just take it one step at a time is the best I can say.
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09-15-2009, 06:59 AM
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Kneedragger
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Didcot/oxford/england
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Sorry for your loss. But at least you got memores keep them alive
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