Vasectomy.

Triple · 06-15-2009, 11:54 AM

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RACER X · 06-15-2009, 11:55 AM

i'll prolly be heading down that path soon.....

z06boy · 06-15-2009, 12:02 PM

I had it done several years ago. Drove my self home...just sat my blue balls up on the dash but the speedbumps were a killer.

Actually I think insurance did pay for it so I don't know how much it cost but whatever it was...it was well worth it !!

pauldun170 · 06-15-2009, 12:02 PM

(puts thread on watch list...rubs balls...curses wife)

Amber Lamps · 06-15-2009, 12:18 PM

Yep, I had it done a long time ago. I actually walked home approximately 5 miles. I went dancing that same night. It really wasn't that bad at all. I believe that once I forgave my wife for not making it back in time, I even had sex but I think that was the next morning. I was in the military so it was paid for of course, but I believe that insurance is more than happy to pay for an out-patient procedure vs the cost of having children.

I don't know if this has changed but they made me wait for 3 months to have it done to give me time to change my mind. Good luck.

the chi · 06-15-2009, 12:33 PM

Im sure youve thought of it already, but you DID talk to your wife about it right? That whole kids thing can make or break a marriage...

the chi · 06-15-2009, 12:42 PM

Mmmmm, I understand. As long as you've been clear from the start, her fault for thinking to change you on that subject. Its said that everyone changes their mind, but that doesnt say you have to. Good luck man, I dont blame you for taking no chances as long as you are 100% sure.

Switch · 06-16-2009, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Triple

When she and I started dating, I made it clear that I a) had no intention of ever getting married and b) did not want children. She broke me down on the first one, but I can't cave on kids. There was no lifestyle change between living together and being married. Having kids would fuck up everything, however. And things are pretty fucked up to begin with, so no thanks.

She's talking about kids more and more frequently these days; it may soon be time for drastic action. Time to cut the cord(s), so to speak.

Wow, you ARE numb, as your little quote above your avatar suggests.

HurricaneHeather · 06-15-2009, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Triple

My wife wants kids, I don't.

I am all of a sudden interested in this thread.

Apoc · 06-15-2009, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Triple

This is my line of thinking as well. Even if it IS an out of pocket expense, it will still cost a hell of a lot less than raising a kid...

My wife wants kids, I don't.

Your not going to find a doctor who will do it anyway, as you have no kids and your wife isnt on board with it. I looked into it before, im glad I didnt get it done, it was a bad time in my life when i thought i would be better off without ever having kids.

But ya, forget it, at least till your mid thirties, a doctor isnt going to do it. Especially not behind your wifes back.

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z06boy Letzroll Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Lake Norman area, NC Moto: 07 Red R1 & 07 Blue R6 Posts: 5,265	I had it done several years ago. Drove my self home...just sat my blue balls up on the dash but the speedbumps were a killer. Actually I think insurance did pay for it so I don't know how much it cost but whatever it was...it was well worth it !!

06-15-2009, 12:18 PM	#5
Amber Lamps Moto GP Star Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 14,556	Yep, I had it done a long time ago. I actually walked home approximately 5 miles. I went dancing that same night. It really wasn't that bad at all. I believe that once I forgave my wife for not making it back in time, I even had sex but I think that was the next morning. I was in the military so it was paid for of course, but I believe that insurance is more than happy to pay for an out-patient procedure vs the cost of having children. I don't know if this has changed but they made me wait for 3 months to have it done to give me time to change my mind. Good luck.