I knew it was time...but it's still hard.

CrazyKell · 09-14-2009, 11:12 PM

Got the call this evening that my grandmother (Dolly) passed this evening.

I had sat with her for about an hour after work tonight. She was a shadow of who she was and it's a blessing.

I've never had to deal with this and I'm not doing the best. Logically I know it was time and it was a blessing. But emotionally I just want Dolly back.

I've also been asked to say the eulogy. NO idea where to start with this one.

Gas Man · 09-14-2009, 11:16 PM

I have had to do this with a grandmother that was grand and tought me many things. I remember I held myself together right till the end... then I freakin lost it. And I wont even start with the loss of my dad.

Sorry for your loss.

2up · 09-14-2009, 11:16 PM

So sorry to hear about this Kell.

Trip · 09-14-2009, 11:18 PM

Sorry to hear, Kell. RIP Dolly

Just speak from the heart for the Eulogy. Write down a few stories that you have from growing up that really just shows her how you remember her and the life she had.

101lifts2 · 09-14-2009, 11:20 PM

RIP..

My grandmother was named Dolly as well.

TommyHotWheel · 09-15-2009, 12:16 AM

Im sorry Kell. The best way I dealt with my Grandfathers passing was to celebrate the life He led and the people he touched. Try that with your Grams, remember the good times and share what made you happy with her, learning to cook or sew or vacations or how she helped you read or the days on the farm or whatever you had with her. Have other people share the good experiences and put that in the eulogy. You and your family are in our thoughts.

Tsunami · 09-15-2009, 12:17 AM

I'm sorry Kel

My condolences to you and your family.

fasternyou929 · 09-15-2009, 12:24 AM

Sorry to hear about your loss, Kelly.

For her Eulogy, just try speaking from your heart as mentioned above. When you think about Dolly, what are the first 3 things that come to mind? What are a couple things she taught you along the way? With just those few catalysts and your (grammatically correct

) writing skills, I'm sure you'll write something very moving.

njchopper87 · 09-15-2009, 12:20 AM

I'm sorry for your loss. :/ I know it's tough getting over something like this.. just take it one step at a time is the best I can say.

mutley · 09-15-2009, 05:59 AM

Sorry for your loss. But at least you got memores keep them alive

09-14-2009, 11:12 PM	#1
CrazyKell Vrooom Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: 06 ZX6R Posts: 4,427	I knew it was time...but it's still hard. Got the call this evening that my grandmother (Dolly) passed this evening. I had sat with her for about an hour after work tonight. She was a shadow of who she was and it's a blessing. I've never had to deal with this and I'm not doing the best. Logically I know it was time and it was a blessing. But emotionally I just want Dolly back. I've also been asked to say the eulogy. NO idea where to start with this one.

09-14-2009, 11:16 PM	#2
Gas Man Trip's Assistant Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Imported from Detroit Moto: 2009 HD Street Classic Posts: 12,149	I have had to do this with a grandmother that was grand and tought me many things. I remember I held myself together right till the end... then I freakin lost it. And I wont even start with the loss of my dad. Sorry for your loss. __________________ -Chris "Why pay somebody else to fuck up your bike?" Run Amsoil Product

09-14-2009, 11:20 PM	#5
101lifts2 WSB Champion Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Anaheim, CA Moto: 2009 Kawi ZX6R Posts: 5,570	RIP.. My grandmother was named Dolly as well. __________________ Train Hard Ron Paul - 2012 Mark of Excellence GM

09-15-2009, 12:16 AM	#6
TommyHotWheel Imported from Detroit Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Michigan Moto: 2001 Suzuki TL1000R Posts: 989	Im sorry Kell. The best way I dealt with my Grandfathers passing was to celebrate the life He led and the people he touched. Try that with your Grams, remember the good times and share what made you happy with her, learning to cook or sew or vacations or how she helped you read or the days on the farm or whatever you had with her. Have other people share the good experiences and put that in the eulogy. You and your family are in our thoughts. __________________ Cry Havok! And let slip the hogs of war!

09-15-2009, 05:59 AM	#10
mutley Kneedragger Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Didcot/oxford/england Posts: 117	Sorry for your loss. But at least you got memores keep them alive __________________ If it works take it apart. if you dont need it get rig of ie. 5kg's = 1bhp or there about. They say Life is a waste of Time, and Time is a waste of Life....so let's all get wasted and have the time of our lives !! I've been dating this girl for a year and now the nagging starts.." I wanna know your name !" and things like that... :-( everyone has the right to be stupid.....I just abuse the privilege !

09-14-2009, 11:16 PM	#3
2up Waiting for Hello Kitty! Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Arizona Moto: Nothing ATM, which makes me want to cry. Posts: 810	So sorry to hear about this Kell.

09-15-2009, 12:17 AM	#7
Tsunami Pug Queen Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Las Vegas, NV Moto: DR200, SV650 Posts: 2,486	I'm sorry Kel My condolences to you and your family.

09-15-2009, 12:24 AM	#8
fasternyou929 SFL Expatriate #2 Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Raleigh, NC Moto: CBR1000 Posts: 2,043	Sorry to hear about your loss, Kelly. For her Eulogy, just try speaking from your heart as mentioned above. When you think about Dolly, what are the first 3 things that come to mind? What are a couple things she taught you along the way? With just those few catalysts and your (grammatically correct ) writing skills, I'm sure you'll write something very moving.