Vasectomy.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Trip

this thread is fail

Yea I'm out.

[HurricaneHeather]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Yea I'm out.

Funny since you are the one who has kept it going all day. Just like every other thread with any hints of controversy.

[askmrjesus]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Yea I'm out.

Brown noser.

JC

[tached1000rr]

My best friend had it the other way around, he wanted children, his wife stated before they married she wanted kids as well, 2 years into their marriage she confesses that she has never wanted or intended to have children she was taking birth control of some sort while he thought they were working on getting pregnant. It was the end of the marriage, they divorced in a civil manner. His heart was crushed but he's picked up the pieces and moved on although yet to find that "one" as of yet.

[Cory]

Dude Triple, I think we are all in agreement that you should probably not reproduce ... with that being said ... why would you NOT tell your wife before hand?

I mean if she "knew" going into the relationship/marriage that you didn't want kids then why hide it??

[Apoc]

Cory, obviously youve never had to reason with a wife/girlfriend...

[Trip]

I talked to A and she said she would cut my balls off completely if I did it without telling her, but that is for our situation. She said in this situation, she would understand if triple did it without asking because he fully informed her that he didn't want kids from the beginning, but wouldn't lie about it if asked to have kids and would tell her the truth at the time she brought up the kids question again.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Trip

I talked to A and she said she would cut my balls off completely if I did it without telling her, but that is for our situation. She said in this situation, she would understand if triple did it without asking because he fully informed her that he didn't want kids from the beginning, but wouldn't lie about it if asked to have kids and would tell her the truth at the time she brought up the kids question again.

This is absolutely no bullshit, my gf said almost exactly the same thing. Because the woman went into the situation knowing full well the op's stance on the matter, what he does to ensure his childlessness is a secondary consideration. If he gets on the pill/shot, uses condoms or gets fixed really makes no difference since the end result is the same.

[annawil]

You're joking and just trying to start an argument, right? At least I hope you are because I really don't understand how someone could be that dumb.

Let's get this straight. You've been saying since the beginning of your relationship that you don't want kids. She's been saying since the beginning of your relationship that she wants kids. You are BOTH trying to change the other person. Now you're saying she's trying to change you, and you're refusing to admit that you're trying to change her as well.

Grow up and tell your wife what your plans are before you do it instead of hiding in the closet like a 2 year old that's trying not too pee his pants in fear because a girl is going to yell at him.

If we're taking a vote on whether or not you should get the procedure done here then I vote that you go for it. You're obviously not mature enough to reproduce, let alone get married.

[askmrjesus]

Originally Posted by annawil

Grow up and tell your wife what your plans are before you do it instead of hiding in the closet like a 2 year old that's trying not too pee his pants in fear because a girl is going to yell at him.

Ow.

She's spot on though.

If you can't discuss stuff like this with your own wife, finding validation from of the likes of, " I'm only banging her short term, 'cause all women are conniving whores who will scratch my gas tank, and I was never held as a child dude" ain't gonna help you.

Man the fuck up, and tell it like is.

JC