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[askmrjesus]

Originally Posted by 2up

No offense but, if you used to let your girls blow friends at parties, your standards aren't exactly run of the mill. Seriously dude, after that would you kiss your girl and think "oh hey wow, my buddy must be eating a lot of pineapple lately..."

If you're letting your girlfriend blow other guys, you're a dick sucker by proxy.

JC

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by 2up

No offense but, if you used to let your girls blow friends at parties, your standards aren't exactly run of the mill. Seriously dude, after that would you kiss your girl and think "oh hey wow, my buddy must be eating a lot of pineapple lately..."

Yea well, if anyone thinks that their so has never sucked another dick before you came along... Besides, that's the situation you run into if you engage in 3 ways... Sorry, I'm not hypocritical enough to have a double standard... I've done a few 2 guys/1 girl 3 ways...and no I don't make direct contact with the other guy but I've kissed a girl after she has kissed someone else before. On the other hand, I won't kiss you if I come in your mouth, much less someone else. I guess I draw the line at saliva.

[2up]

Tigger, what someone did a year ago (sucking dick or whatnot) is not the same as what someone did a minute ago. Seriously, your girl had some other dudes dick in her mouth and then you kissed her. Did you verify if dude came or not? (And if he didn't, why are you dating her? ) And does it make it ok if he didn't? Yuck!

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by askmrjesus

If you're letting your girlfriend blow other guys, you're a dick sucker by proxy.

JC

Yea well, most of us are, it's just a matter of how long ago it was. Besides, who hasn't kissed their SO the next day after a blow job? Oh does tooth paste wash the "dick sucker-ness" away? Well, if it works the next morning, I guess that it works in 15 minutes...

[derf]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Yea well, most of us are, it's just a matter of how long ago it was. Besides, who hasn't kissed their SO the next day after a blow job? Oh does tooth paste was the "dick sucker-ness" away? Well, if it works the next morning, I guess that it works in 15 minutes...

Good point, ou never know whats stuck between her teeth!

[smileyman]

Back to the topic. When someone works hard to build a body they wanna show it off. I think a beach swim suit shot isnt that kinda porn even topless wouldnt scare me but perhaps if you pictured yourself in 'the act' maybe too far?

[pauldun170]

Tig's a single guy in his 40's....nuff said.

as for itgirl..
Still waiting on pics

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by 2up

Tigger, what someone did a year ago (sucking dick or whatnot) is not the same as what someone did a minute ago. Seriously, your girl had some other dudes dick in her mouth and then you kissed her. Did you verify if dude came or not? (And if he didn't, why are you dating her? ) And does it make it ok if he didn't? Yuck!

Again, I didn't kiss her right afterward but I certainly kissed her later once she brushed her teeth. I'm sorry but I'm not that sensitive I guess. I've kissed many a girl on the first date, some within 15 minutes of introductions, who's to say that they didn't just blow someone an hour ago? I'm not going to worry about it. I guess that I'm not as homophobic as some of you are.

What really gets me is how a girl will kiss you after you eat her out and it's cool but not the other way around. Tell me that you haven't kissed your SO after he went down town. I've always found the disparity rather strange in all honesty. There's tons of porn where a girl will suck a guy's dick after it's been in another girl's ass and that is considered "HOT" but if a guy kisses a girl after her mouth was on another guys dick for .01 of a second that's "YUCK"...weird...

[neebelung]

Originally Posted by smileyman

Back to the topic. When someone works hard to build a body they wanna show it off. I think a beach swim suit shot isnt that kinda porn even topless wouldnt scare me but perhaps if you pictured yourself in 'the act' maybe too far?

Intent is the difference here.

Posting up pics publicly, because you're proud of (for example) a fitness goal you've reached is (IMO) innocent.

Sending pics privately to someone other than your SO because (for example) your SO isn't fawning over you, so you're seeking attention elsewhere... line = crossed.

But again just my opinion... Everyone's relationships and boundaries are different.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by neebelung

Intent is the difference here.

Posting up pics publicly, because you're proud of (for example) a fitness goal you've reached is (IMO) innocent.

Sending pics privately to someone other than your SO because (for example) your SO isn't fawning over you, so you're seeking attention elsewhere... line = crossed.

But again just my opinion... Everyone's relationships and boundaries are different.

Agreed, if you're just looking for attention and leg humping then there's possibly something wrong with your relationship to begin with.