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Originally Posted by TIGGER
That is true though. I used to work the door at a strip club and I'd see these guys come in every week searching for even the smallest, pathetic scrap of sexual attention. It never ceases to amaze me when a woman is so incredibly outraged that her husband cheated on her, when it's later learned that she hasn't had sex with him for months. It's like the old "sex stops after marriage" jokes, it just proves that the woman wasn't really attracted to the man sexually in the first place if that were to happen. Seriously, every woman I've ever been with has said that "the sex is incredibly better when you love each other". What greater way to absolutely prove that you love someone than to dedicate the rest of your life to them? If anything you should be getting laid MORE after marriage, not less.
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It's all peachy fucking keen until your husband starts asking (nay, shaming) you to have threesomes and let him have an "open relationship" (which is fine for people who are into that.. but I'm not one of those people).. yeah, my ex didn't mention that part BEFORE we tied the knot. But it's so much deeper than that.. I know of things he did in his past.. and well, the thought of him touching me made me ill after a while.
So yeah, you're right, he probably cheated on me because I didn't want to have sex with him, but fuck it, I was justified.
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