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Originally Posted by lauralynne

Goddamn double standards.
Let me see if I get this straight:
Women ALWAYS change after marriage and men NEVER do.

Ok. Got it. Thanks.

Nope, I didn't say that. Actually, I said that people can change but you will always be "fundamentally" you. Besides, for the most part people don't really "change", you just find out more about them as time goes on. I don't know how long she was married but are you going to tell me that a person can completely change their very nature in the space of a few months or years? I think not. He was a freak to begin with, she only discovered that fact AFTER they were married. Just like he discovered she was a prude and frigid AFTER they got married. They both failed IMHO. I'm sure he's somewhere discussing this situation with his friends and they are all saying that she was a bitch or whatever. Actually, it's all for the best, now he can find someone who is into the things he's into and she can do the same. Hurray! For the record, I'm actually with her on the once you are married there's to be no one else in your bed pov.