Vasectomy.

z06boy · 06-16-2009, 10:33 AM

My ex wife and I got divorced due to her changing her mind about having kids. We discussed it and agreed that we didn't want any before hand.

Her best friend got pregnant...her sister got pregnant and then her cousin got pregnant.

I had gotten a vasectomy because I knew I didn't want any. She wanted me to get it reversed. I said no and one thing led to the next and we ended the marriage.

Part of the problem with us may have been that I was about 14 years older than her and she just felt different later and changed her mind. I didn't.

She's now remarried and has a little boy...good for her.

I'm remarried and the current wife still says no kids so we are doing fine.

She's only 10 years younger than me...hey that's closer.

I don't think that it's a good idea to get a vasectomy while married without first discussing it with your wife...just doesn't seem right. Man up and deal with the consequences.

06-16-2009, 10:33 AM	#13
z06boy Letzroll Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Lake Norman area, NC Moto: 07 Red R1 & 07 Blue R6 Posts: 5,265	My ex wife and I got divorced due to her changing her mind about having kids. We discussed it and agreed that we didn't want any before hand. Her best friend got pregnant...her sister got pregnant and then her cousin got pregnant. I had gotten a vasectomy because I knew I didn't want any. She wanted me to get it reversed. I said no and one thing led to the next and we ended the marriage. Part of the problem with us may have been that I was about 14 years older than her and she just felt different later and changed her mind. I didn't. She's now remarried and has a little boy...good for her. I'm remarried and the current wife still says no kids so we are doing fine. She's only 10 years younger than me...hey that's closer. I don't think that it's a good idea to get a vasectomy while married without first discussing it with your wife...just doesn't seem right. Man up and deal with the consequences.