Ladies, how much of this is true? - Page 10

Cutty72 · 12-22-2009, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by The Chi

You need to meet different women.

All but 2 of my real friends are guys (including many from this forum, even if they are my friends because I have boobs, I love them nonetheless).

We love them as well!
(your boobs that is)

the chi · 12-22-2009, 11:20 AM

Coming from the one long time member I havent even met yet.

Amorok · 12-22-2009, 01:33 PM

Tigger and Trip are right. I've been married six years, and a relationship is not equal. I bight my tongue about a lot of shit, whereas Ulu vents about everything. I pay all the bills except for her truck, and everything is in my name. She does all the housework except my laundry, I do the yard work. She does 90% of the kid-raising, I'm the one who beats him. Is our life equal? Fuck no, not even close? Do we both do our part so it evens out? No, hell no. I'm doing way more shit. Ask her and she'll tell you she does more. And yes we keep score, everybody does. The day I lose the moral high ground I have to start helping more, which is how we avoid fights, because I can tell when she's getting pissed and do an assessment, then up my workload for a while or contribute more in some other way (hence me sucking it up and coming to North Dakota, I'm fucking MILES ahead on the leaderboard after this little jaunt.) Relationships are all about doing shitty things you wouldn't have to if you were single. The goal is to do just enough shitty things, or the right shitty things, to make the other person happy they don't have to do those shitty things so they'll do something that makes you happy in return, which usually ends up being shitty for them. Your relationship works in the long term when you find a good balance of shitty things that make each other happy and you can stand. And eventually those things become a little less repugnant through familiarity, and that's what love is people. Overcoming a basic, inherent loathing through repetition generating a general numbness. Merry fucking Christmas.

HurricaneHeather · 12-22-2009, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Amorok

...and that's what love is people. Overcoming a basic, inherent loathing through repetition generating a general numbness. Merry fucking Christmas.

Trip · 12-22-2009, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Amorok

Tigger and Trip are right. I've been married six years, and a relationship is not equal. I bight my tongue about a lot of shit, whereas Ulu vents about everything. I pay all the bills except for her truck, and everything is in my name. She does all the housework except my laundry, I do the yard work. She does 90% of the kid-raising, I'm the one who beats him. Is our life equal? Fuck no, not even close? Do we both do our part so it evens out? No, hell no. I'm doing way more shit. Ask her and she'll tell you she does more. And yes we keep score, everybody does. The day I lose the moral high ground I have to start helping more, which is how we avoid fights, because I can tell when she's getting pissed and do an assessment, then up my workload for a while or contribute more in some other way (hence me sucking it up and coming to North Dakota, I'm fucking MILES ahead on the leaderboard after this little jaunt.) Relationships are all about doing shitty things you wouldn't have to if you were single. The goal is to do just enough shitty things, or the right shitty things, to make the other person happy they don't have to do those shitty things so they'll do something that makes you happy in return, which usually ends up being shitty for them. Your relationship works in the long term when you find a good balance of shitty things that make each other happy and you can stand. And eventually those things become a little less repugnant through familiarity, and that's what love is people. Overcoming a basic, inherent loathing through repetition generating a general numbness. Merry fucking Christmas.

Very nicely put, couldn't put it any better.

Particle Man · 12-22-2009, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Trip

Very nicely put, couldn't put it any better.

you're only saying that because he said you're right.

Trip · 12-22-2009, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Particle Man

you're only saying that because he said you're right.

quiet with your logic over there

CrazyKell · 12-22-2009, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

Yeah no kidding. Most of my friends are male except for a few girlfriends but they took me a while to develop due to the gossipy judgemental shit that I didn't want to be a part of. Guys make great friends cause they don't care about all that...they just want to go out and drink a few beers and watch the game just like I do.

Guys are worse than women!

Amber Lamps · 12-22-2009, 02:06 PM

Me, you and Trip, Amorok... Everyone else is living in a fantasy land. I do shit for you, you do shit for me and we stay together. I do shit for you and you don't do shit for me- see ya later, bitch!

Particle Man · 12-22-2009, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Trip

quiet with your logic over there

no denials I see

12-22-2009, 01:33 PM	#93
Amorok Issukangitok Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Biloxi, MS Moto: '06 Suzuki Boulevard C50T Posts: 2,225	Tigger and Trip are right. I've been married six years, and a relationship is not equal. I bight my tongue about a lot of shit, whereas Ulu vents about everything. I pay all the bills except for her truck, and everything is in my name. She does all the housework except my laundry, I do the yard work. She does 90% of the kid-raising, I'm the one who beats him. Is our life equal? Fuck no, not even close? Do we both do our part so it evens out? No, hell no. I'm doing way more shit. Ask her and she'll tell you she does more. And yes we keep score, everybody does. The day I lose the moral high ground I have to start helping more, which is how we avoid fights, because I can tell when she's getting pissed and do an assessment, then up my workload for a while or contribute more in some other way (hence me sucking it up and coming to North Dakota, I'm fucking MILES ahead on the leaderboard after this little jaunt.) Relationships are all about doing shitty things you wouldn't have to if you were single. The goal is to do just enough shitty things, or the right shitty things, to make the other person happy they don't have to do those shitty things so they'll do something that makes you happy in return, which usually ends up being shitty for them. Your relationship works in the long term when you find a good balance of shitty things that make each other happy and you can stand. And eventually those things become a little less repugnant through familiarity, and that's what love is people. Overcoming a basic, inherent loathing through repetition generating a general numbness. Merry fucking Christmas. __________________ What goes around comes around. Sometimes you get what's coming around, and sometimes you are what's coming around. You see what I mean?

12-22-2009, 02:06 PM	#99
Amber Lamps Moto GP Star Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 14,556	Me, you and Trip, Amorok... Everyone else is living in a fantasy land. I do shit for you, you do shit for me and we stay together. I do shit for you and you don't do shit for me- see ya later, bitch!