Vasectomy. - Page 16

z06boy · 06-16-2009, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Tmall

Not have sex with his wife? No wonder we think you guys use it as a bargaining chip.

I have to admit...the ONLY ones posting "then don't have sex" are females.

Amber Lamps · 06-16-2009, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Tennessee Stud

I'm glad most people don't. I was totally honest with Hannah about everything right up front. I pretty much told her everything that would typically deter someone with being with me, such as previous drug experimentation, being in jail, sexual history, etc.

A year and a half later, we are happy, in love, and engaged.

CHEW ON THAT!

Hahaha! I think it all depends on what you have in the closet doesn't it? I suppose that you think that you know EVERYTHING about her too right? SUCKER!!!

Archren · 06-16-2009, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by z06boy

I have to admit...the ONLY ones posting "then don't have sex" are females.

Because not having sex means she can't trick him into having a baby.

Because it's really THAT FREAKING HARD to go without, to freaking tell her he wants a vasectomy..

Seriously, bunch of fucking pussies. Man the fuck up, face the woman and tell her. She doesn't like it, then it becomes HER problem because yes, there was the agreement in the beginning of the relationship, but at least HE would be absolved and totally free of blame, am I right? If she wants a divorce, WHOOP DEE FUCKING DOO!!! I say he'd be free of a shitty relationship then. What in the hell would be wrong with that?

Jesus Christ, y'all pretend to be big boys and all this shit, and you don't even have the balls to tell someone what you want to do. You have to lie and go behind their backs to do it. Holy wow.. chicken shit at it's best.

Amber Lamps · 06-16-2009, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Archren

Easy fix.. don't have sex.. or make sure he keeps the condoms in his possession the entire time. Just sayin...

Now that's something I definitely agree with! He should absolutely stop having sex with her now!!!

Like I said before, in my case, my wife's religious convictions were always going to be a problem as far as a vasectomy went. So I made the appointment, waited the three months and a week prior, I told her what I was going to do. Sure, I'm a "coward" but I was not going to fight with her for three months about this. My mind was made up. As far as I was concerned it was the right thing to do. I won't apologize to anyone for the way I handled the situation. I did what I had to do to. Period.

Homeslice · 06-16-2009, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by TIGGER

Hah! That was just an example bud but um you're from Cali right? Around here it could make a huge difference. When she told her Mom my name the first thing she asked her was if I was a NIGGER!

Apparently "Lon" is a black name...

Her family would completely disown her if they found out. According to her, she already has a cousin that is out of the family for the same reason.

Quick story.I guess when she was in High School, she was on the basketball team. Of course the only 2 black girls in the school were also on the team (hahaha). Well my gf made the mistake of bringing one of them home after practice and her Grandma was there. Her Grandmother told the rest of her family that she was a "nigger lover"

I shit you not!!! My gf told me right to my face that had she known I was part black there is NO WAY she would have started dating me!!!

Ok, well...........That's right, you live in NC, right? And eastern NC to boot

My grandad down in SC used to use the N word too, but he stopped doing so about 20 years ago.

It's funny every time I go down south, how BLACK the black people are, I mean like INK black in some parts, because they just stick to their part of the city, and there's not much inter-marriage at all. Pretty fucking sad actually.

Amber Lamps · 06-16-2009, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by CrazyKell

Or he could just not have sex with her.

Novel idea huh?!

Okay no sex and no children...why are they married?

Archren · 06-16-2009, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by TIGGER

Okay no sex and no children...why are they married?

That's what we all said when they got married in the first place.. we saw it coming miles away.

Amber Lamps · 06-16-2009, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Homeslice

Ok, well...........That's right, you live in NC, right? And eastern NC to boot

My grandad down in SC used to use the N word too, but he stopped doing so about 20 years ago.

It's funny every time I go down south, how BLACK the black people are, I mean like INK black in some parts, because they just stick to their part of the city, and there's not much inter-marriage at all. Pretty fucking sad actually.

Right? I mean half breeds are the shit!!! Who wouldn't want a mulatto grandchild?