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View Poll Results: Would you continue a relationship with a cheater?
Hell no! 43 71.67%
Yes but with "conditions" 9 15.00%
Yes - who cares 2 3.33%
What's good enough for Tater is good enough for me. 6 10.00%
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Old 11-06-2009, 12:07 PM   #11
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But I know for example, one woman who cheated after begging for YEARS her husband to give her more attention, have sex with her more, be a better presence in the house. Is it excused? No. But I get it. And so did he. If you truly LOVE someone there isn't alot that shouldn't be forgiven ONCE
I can kind of understand this

Thankfully I've never been in this situation (that I know of) so I can't really say how I'd react.

ETA: I also have a hard time leaving someone I care about, so they'd have to really ufkc things up to get rid of me

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Old 11-06-2009, 12:16 PM   #12
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talking and flirting I wouldn't consider cheating, going out for lunch (coworkers) and group activities and such, but if it gets into dating like activities and beyond is where I would draw the line.

I would break it off immediately and be done, one strike and you're out. Trust is important to me and cheating pretty much shows it isn't to the person, so fuck them.
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Old 11-06-2009, 12:38 PM   #13
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I couldn't do it! I had a cheating boyfriend once and he was out the door the same day. I would never be able to trust that person again no matter what they said or did. Just me though, many do decide to work it out and from what I've seen that rarely works for more than a short period of time.

The key is if you decide to work it out and 'forgive' the other then you better damn well forgive it. Don't bring it up when you get mad, or use it against the other. forgive, talk figure out what when wrong, fix it and let it go....you can't keep rubbing it in their face. seen too many couples do just that and they end up splitting later anyway.
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Old 11-06-2009, 12:53 PM   #14
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Been there with an ex, the answer is FUCK NO. the instant I find out you cheated on me with another person, you're gone like a turd goin down the crapper.
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Old 11-06-2009, 01:38 PM   #15
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I have in the past but never will again!!
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Old 11-06-2009, 01:43 PM   #16
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nope, out the door
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Old 11-06-2009, 02:15 PM   #17
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In general, I say no. However it really depends on the relationship and the details.

Is this boyfriend/girlfriend or a marriage?
Are there children involved?
How long was the relationship?
What is the nature of the cheating? (inter-course? on-line flirting?)

I have learned to never say never.
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Old 11-06-2009, 03:00 PM   #18
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I always said no, always always no; now I have an almost 4 month old little guy and am not sure what to do....
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Old 11-06-2009, 03:48 PM   #19
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I would never be able to trust that person again no matter what they said or did.

Bingo.

Also the old saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is really really true.
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Old 11-06-2009, 03:57 PM   #20
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sometimes things just get so broke they can't ever be fixed the same again... and it sucks but it's better to realize, be hurt and move forward than wait for it to happen again.
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