Playing hard to get?

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by karl_1052

Hard to get is an old fashined concept.

If you want somebody, take off the panties and shove them in his jeans pocket.

If he likes you, he will let you know.

i freakin' love this concept!

[Flexin]

Originally Posted by karl_1052

Hard to get is an old fashined concept.

If you want somebody, take off the panties and shove them in his jeans pocket.

If he likes you, he will let you know.

Woman take note. Panties in the pocket is a great idea.

James

[wildchild]

Originally Posted by Trip

Some guys like it, some don't.

I fall into the latter and think it's dumb. I like things straight forward.

agree

[goof2]

Originally Posted by MissHell

Playing hard to get... yes, no, somewhere in between. Saw an article yesterday about it, had different points of views. Thoughts?

It depends on what a person wants.

If a girl wants to get laid play easy to get and someone will get hard. Afterward a lot of guys will then play their version of hard to get by not answering their phone or returning calls.

If a girl wants a relationship somewhere in between is probably the best plan. Most guys, myself included, will not put up with the hard to get bullshit. It gets tired pretty damn quick. At the same time I probably don't want to be long term relationship with a girl who was so easy you probably can't throw a rock without hitting someone she banged.

[pauldun170]

I'm married so I'll just make yap pointless nonsense a bits


Define hard to get

We talking bumpin uglies or getting a date....in other word time to getting physical or simpy one on one face time.

If someone feels the need to play hard to get...fuck em and their mind games.
There's a natural flow to a relationship and if someone wants to fuck with that flow to make "the other person work for it" then that someone should either pay me for the work performed or better have a nice dental plan to offer.

However if someone wants to take the relationship slow thats fine.

[derf]

I like a little hard to get, but if I need to do anything more than entertain you for more than a few hours to get you to go out with me then I'm walking to the next girl down the line.

[101lifts2]

Originally Posted by derf

I like a little hard to get, but if I need to do anything more than entertain you for more than a few hours to get you to go out with me then I'm walking to the next fat girl down the line.

Sounds cool.


Women...if you would just put out more there would be no serial killings and alot less homosexuality. lol

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by 101lifts2

Sounds cool.


Women...if you would just put out more there would be no serial killings and alot less homosexuality. lol

I don't know... from the girls I've met recently, I don't think that they could put out more. Some girl offeed to blow me in the parking lot last night at the bar, no bs. She was a little chunky but with big tits. I was like um, nah I have a gf. She didn't seem to care... I don't think the problem is lack of sex.

[Tmall]

I guarantee, I'm not full of it.


All this time I've been doing it wrong by dating women I hit it off with? When all along I should have been trying harder to get the ones that thought dating was some form of game full of silly tests like playing hard to get?

Nope, men do not like it. I don't know one who does.

[Rembrant]

Strike a middle ground. Let them know you are interested but do let the guy or girl pursue you. The chase does make it worth while but being honest helps to.