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View Poll Results: Would you continue a relationship with a cheater? | |||
Hell no! |
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43 | 71.67% |
Yes but with "conditions" |
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9 | 15.00% |
Yes - who cares |
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2 | 3.33% |
What's good enough for Tater is good enough for me. |
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6 | 10.00% |
Voters: 60. You may not vote on this poll |
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giggity
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: socal
Moto: street, sumo & dirty
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Thankfully I've never been in this situation (that I know of) so I can't really say how I'd react. ETA: I also have a hard time leaving someone I care about, so they'd have to really ufkc things up to get rid of me Last edited by Sean; 11-06-2009 at 02:22 PM.. |
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Hold mah beer!
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: 80 Miles South of Moto Heaven
Moto: 08 R1200GS
Posts: 23,268
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talking and flirting I wouldn't consider cheating, going out for lunch (coworkers) and group activities and such, but if it gets into dating like activities and beyond is where I would draw the line.
I would break it off immediately and be done, one strike and you're out. Trust is important to me and cheating pretty much shows it isn't to the person, so fuck them.
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Gixxer Girl
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Kyle, TX
Moto: 05 GSXR 750 & 06 YZ250F
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I couldn't do it! I had a cheating boyfriend once and he was out the door the same day. I would never be able to trust that person again no matter what they said or did. Just me though, many do decide to work it out and from what I've seen that rarely works for more than a short period of time.
The key is if you decide to work it out and 'forgive' the other then you better damn well forgive it. Don't bring it up when you get mad, or use it against the other. forgive, talk figure out what when wrong, fix it and let it go....you can't keep rubbing it in their face. seen too many couples do just that and they end up splitting later anyway. |
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too much time on my hands
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: the northern district of god damn
Moto: 01 ZX6R, looking for more now.
Posts: 1,802
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Been there with an ex, the answer is FUCK NO. the instant I find out you cheated on me with another person, you're gone like a turd goin down the crapper.
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The cows want you dead.
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,087
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I have in the past but never will again!!
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RIP REX
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Location: Murfreesboro, TN
Moto: 2008 1125R
Posts: 7,467
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nope, out the door
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Venom R1-016 Squadron Last edited by Trip; 11-06-2009 at 01:48 PM.. |
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Followed the crowd over.
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Hawaii
Moto: '07 Yahama R6
Posts: 911
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In general, I say no. However it really depends on the relationship and the details.
Is this boyfriend/girlfriend or a marriage? Are there children involved? How long was the relationship? What is the nature of the cheating? (inter-course? on-line flirting?) I have learned to never say never. ![]() |
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Lifes a beeeech
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: NE Pa
Moto: Sv1000s
Posts: 54
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I always said no, always always no; now I have an almost 4 month old little guy and am not sure what to do....
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The cows want you dead.
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,087
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Gixxer Girl
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Kyle, TX
Moto: 05 GSXR 750 & 06 YZ250F
Posts: 1,424
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sometimes things just get so broke they can't ever be fixed the same again... and it sucks but it's better to realize, be hurt and move forward than wait for it to happen again.
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