Playing hard to get? - Page 2

wildchild · 07-17-2009, 03:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trip

Some guys like it, some don't.

I fall into the latter and think it's dumb. I like things straight forward.

agree

Tmall · 07-17-2009, 03:09 PM

Definitely not hard to get. If you're not interested, I'm not waiting around.

smileyman · 07-17-2009, 03:14 PM

Get interested or I dont waste my time.

CrazyKell · 07-17-2009, 06:00 PM

Guys are full of such bullshit.

If you're just looking to get laid there's no point in playing hard to get because you're only after one thing.

But whether guys will admit it or not they like *some* form of chase (girls too in all reality). Where's the thrill of getting something that's easy? It doesn't hold any esteem because it's easy.

Somewhere in the middle depending on the guy and girl. But what no one likes is needy!!!!

pauldun170 · 07-17-2009, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CrazyKell

Guys are full of such bullshit.

If you're just looking to get laid there's no point in playing hard to get because you're only after one thing.

But whether guys will admit it or not they like *some* form of chase (girls too in all reality). Where's the thrill of getting something that's easy? It doesn't hold any esteem because it's easy.

Somewhere in the middle depending on the guy and girl. But what no one likes is needy!!!!

I'm still waiting for an explanation of what's meant by hard to get.

JARVIS518 · 07-17-2009, 06:06 PM

wam bam thank you ma'am and oh ya its not gunna lick itself

CrazyKell · 07-17-2009, 06:07 PM

I wouldn't know the explanation of it. I guess it would be a sliding scale of not being available to their every whim and fancy. Or maybe you could say making them work for it.

I'm not very good at it and I highly doubt I do it (I certainly don't try). I'm very honest and genuine (to a fault). I would bet on some unconscious level that it turns guys off and all the guys that say they hate hard to get are just full of it.

Tmall · 07-17-2009, 06:27 PM

I guarantee, I'm not full of it.

All this time I've been doing it wrong by dating women I hit it off with? When all along I should have been trying harder to get the ones that thought dating was some form of game full of silly tests like playing hard to get?

Nope, men do not like it. I don't know one who does.

Rembrant · 07-17-2009, 06:35 PM

Strike a middle ground. Let them know you are interested but do let the guy or girl pursue you. The chase does make it worth while but being honest helps to.

karl_1052 · 07-17-2009, 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CrazyKell

I wouldn't know the explanation of it. I guess it would be a sliding scale of not being available to their every whim and fancy. Or maybe you could say making them work for it.

I'm not very good at it and I highly doubt I do it (I certainly don't try). I'm very honest and genuine (to a fault). I would bet on some unconscious level that it turns guys off and all the guys that say they hate hard to get are just full of it.

You couldn't be more wrong. Game playing is for the schoolyard, or the comic book shop after hours.
I am not talking about just sex, any time a woman plays hard to get, I completely lose interest.
I would rather an honest woman, that does not play games.

07-17-2009, 03:14 PM	#13
smileyman White Trash Hero Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: NW Arkansas Moto: Buell 1125R Porco Rosso Edition Posts: 4,895	Get interested or I dont waste my time. __________________ Arkriders.com To be the best you must first be willing to risk the worst!

07-17-2009, 03:09 PM	#12
Tmall Aspiring Rapper Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Halifax, NS Moto: '12 CB1000R Posts: 3,569	Definitely not hard to get. If you're not interested, I'm not waiting around.

07-17-2009, 06:00 PM	#14
CrazyKell Vrooom Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: 06 ZX6R Posts: 4,427	Guys are full of such bullshit. If you're just looking to get laid there's no point in playing hard to get because you're only after one thing. But whether guys will admit it or not they like some form of chase (girls too in all reality). Where's the thrill of getting something that's easy? It doesn't hold any esteem because it's easy. Somewhere in the middle depending on the guy and girl. But what no one likes is needy!!!!

07-17-2009, 06:06 PM	#16
JARVIS518 BOOBS!! Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Saratoga, NY Moto: 06 CBR 600RR Posts: 1,188	wam bam thank you ma'am and oh ya its not gunna lick itself

07-17-2009, 06:07 PM	#17
CrazyKell Vrooom Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: 06 ZX6R Posts: 4,427	I wouldn't know the explanation of it. I guess it would be a sliding scale of not being available to their every whim and fancy. Or maybe you could say making them work for it. I'm not very good at it and I highly doubt I do it (I certainly don't try). I'm very honest and genuine (to a fault). I would bet on some unconscious level that it turns guys off and all the guys that say they hate hard to get are just full of it.

07-17-2009, 06:27 PM	#18
Tmall Aspiring Rapper Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Halifax, NS Moto: '12 CB1000R Posts: 3,569	I guarantee, I'm not full of it. All this time I've been doing it wrong by dating women I hit it off with? When all along I should have been trying harder to get the ones that thought dating was some form of game full of silly tests like playing hard to get? Nope, men do not like it. I don't know one who does.

07-17-2009, 06:35 PM	#19
Rembrant Trailer Queen Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Kansas Moto: 2009 Suzuki GSX-R 600 Posts: 10	Strike a middle ground. Let them know you are interested but do let the guy or girl pursue you. The chase does make it worth while but being honest helps to.