Vasectomy.

[Trip]

Originally Posted by Apoc

You're....

a bag licker.

You're possibly....

a fag too.

This smiley was made for him:

[racedoll]

Originally Posted by MILK

I would get the vasectomy then tell her. Chances are she's bluffing about the divorce anyway. After all, she knew before saying I DO.. If not, well splitting up a bunch of STUFF is small potatoes over trying to do it when there is a kid involved..

Damn this is a long thread!

I agree but also disagree. I don't think you should get it done without her knowledge. And telling her just isn't enough. She should be involved from start to finish.

For now, she isn't going to divorce you. You just said neither of you can afford it.

I don't really want kids and neither does Erik but I would feel completely betrayed if he would do it and not tell me until after the fact. For some reason I feel the need to be involved, even if I didn't agree with his decision at least I know would know all the details up front.

[Rider]

Insurance covered it and it was a very easy procedure. My doctor required that my wife sigh a form agreeing to the procedure. She even sat in the room and watched the doctor do the procedure. It's really no big deal. A day or 2 off of work and you are good as gold. You can even get back to doing the deed in less than a week after but you still need to use protection for a little while.