Playing hard to get?

[Avatard]

Originally Posted by MissHell

Playing hard to get... yes, no, somewhere in between. Saw an article yesterday about it, had different points of views. Thoughts?

With me, hard-to-get girls remain un-gotten.

No games, please.

[Trip]

I agree woman who put out too easy are not relationship material. I don't consider not putting out early in a relationship playing hard to get. More like responsibility. When I hear hard to get I think of the fucked up mind games some people play. I was never a big woman chaser because I lack a social capacity for such things. Yea I am a geek and fully aware of those limitations. LOL

[neebelung]

Originally Posted by Trip

I agree woman who put out too easy are not relationship material. I don't consider not putting out early in a relationship playing hard to get. More like responsibility. When I hear hard to get I think of the fucked up mind games some people play. I was never a big woman chaser because I lack a social capacity for such things. Yea I am a geek and fully aware of those limitations. LOL

Well said.

[smileyman]

well playing hard to get and not putting out really should be 2 subjects and 2 threads. My idea of playing hard to get is mind games and doesnt get you anywhere with me.
deciding when to consumate your relationship is a matter of comfort and understanding with both parties. a guy who rushes you to that point is only wanting a fling. decide if you want it and be done.

[Adeptus_Minor]

Originally Posted by Trip

I agree woman who put out too easy are not relationship material. I don't consider not putting out early in a relationship playing hard to get. More like responsibility. When I hear hard to get I think of the fucked up mind games some people play. I was never a big woman chaser because I lack a social capacity for such things. Yea I am a geek and fully aware of those limitations. LOL

If a woman isn't comfortable at least acting interested in me, I'm not going to waste my time or meager self esteem chasing her.
However, I can totally respect a woman who doesn't give up all the goods at the drop of a hat.
The happy medium would be something like not being afraid to offer me a backrub but insisting that I earn the blowjob.

[Digifox]

hmmm, dont forget the guys people......but we just play "stubborn" lol.

[EpyonXero]

Originally Posted by Digifox

hmmm, dont forget the guys people......but we just play "stubborn" lol.

Playing hard to get absolutely works on girls.

[Rangerscott]

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