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View Poll Results: Would you continue a relationship with a cheater?
Hell no! 43 71.67%
Yes but with "conditions" 9 15.00%
Yes - who cares 2 3.33%
What's good enough for Tater is good enough for me. 6 10.00%
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Old 11-06-2009, 09:04 PM   #31
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Cheating is always such an interesting subject. As a married man I can say the thought of only having sex with one woman for the rest of my life is a frightening thought and one that I don't feel is realistic for most people.

Luckily my beautiful wife likes other girls too. The couple that fucks other chics together stays together.
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Old 11-07-2009, 03:00 AM   #32
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Then break the hell up!

If you aren't getting what you want, move on. It's that simple. Kids or finances be damned (you're kidding yourself if you think staying together is what's best for your kids).

People who cheat while using their SO as a safety blanket are the lamest kind of people. Too weak to communicate what they want, too weak to break up if they don't get what they want, and too immoral to feel bad about cheating.
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Old 11-07-2009, 09:27 AM   #33
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Hell no... life is too short to spend it with someone who doesn't wanna be with you... and there are a billion+ females out there... odds are another one is worth my time
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Old 11-07-2009, 10:47 AM   #34
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I hope I never know my answer to this.

Until you've walked in the shoes - neither do you.

it's fine to say "oh HELL no - he/she's GONE!" but the reality might be different.

My instinct is to say "hell no" but realistically? I have no idea what I would do. And I hope to never find out.
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Old 11-07-2009, 11:54 AM   #35
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I hope I never know my answer to this.

Until you've walked in the shoes - neither do you.

it's fine to say "oh HELL no - he/she's GONE!" but the reality might be different.

My instinct is to say "hell no" but realistically? I have no idea what I would do. And I hope to never find out.
I have... a couple times... and every time... for me... there wasn't even a thought of continuing...

it's weird... but I didn't even feel hurt that they was gone... I lost all respect for them... and in an instant they weren't worth my time... haven't looked back.

but yeah... I've been around enough friends that have had people cheat on them to know that it's not always that easy for them...
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Old 11-07-2009, 01:47 PM   #36
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i was in a situation where i had suspicions and dismissed them as paranoia and stayed with her. then on the big day of catching her in the act i left. set up an out of court custody schedule for my daughter and never talked to her again. shitty situation but staying around is only good for one party. and it's not you
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Old 11-07-2009, 04:42 PM   #37
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Get your shit outta my place.



Why do you think I'm single now.
Cause you cheated?





JOKING... lets not bring that drama here
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Old 11-07-2009, 05:15 PM   #38
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Huh? Drama?
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Old 11-07-2009, 05:18 PM   #39
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i was in a situation where i had suspicions and dismissed them as paranoia and stayed with her. then on the big day of catching her in the act i left. set up an out of court custody schedule for my daughter and never talked to her again. shitty situation but staying around is only good for one party. and it's not you
Was it that crazy girl you used to post about in CF?
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Old 11-07-2009, 05:35 PM   #40
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I've been there. Well, I suspected. It turns out I was correct - the worst part finding out NOW was that everyone else saw it. They didn't have proof, I didn't have proof, but I've now had a confession.

I suspected, and didn't want to know. I had so many other reasons to leave that I didn't need another. I now know confirmation THEN would have just made me angry and distrustful of everyone. With so many other relationships, I think the cheating is just a final straw - that there are other things also wrong and it's the final thing that no one will be able to get past. If you can't have a viable future... is it worth staying together? I don't think so.

Trust is a key part of our relationship. My husband is gone every other month for a month at a time. Without that trust - our relationship is really equal to nothing. I don't know that it would survive without trust.
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