Playing hard to get?

[Digifox]

hmmm, dont forget the guys people......but we just play "stubborn" lol.

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by karl_1052

Hard to get is an old fashined concept.

If you want somebody, take off the panties and shove them in his jeans pocket.

If he likes you, he will let you know.

i freakin' love this concept!

[Rangerscott]

dumb

[EpyonXero]

Originally Posted by Digifox

hmmm, dont forget the guys people......but we just play "stubborn" lol.

Playing hard to get absolutely works on girls.

[101lifts2]

Originally Posted by derf

I like a little hard to get, but if I need to do anything more than entertain you for more than a few hours to get you to go out with me then I'm walking to the next fat girl down the line.

Sounds cool.


Women...if you would just put out more there would be no serial killings and alot less homosexuality. lol

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by 101lifts2

Sounds cool.


Women...if you would just put out more there would be no serial killings and alot less homosexuality. lol

I don't know... from the girls I've met recently, I don't think that they could put out more. Some girl offeed to blow me in the parking lot last night at the bar, no bs. She was a little chunky but with big tits. I was like um, nah I have a gf. She didn't seem to care... I don't think the problem is lack of sex.

[101lifts2]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

I don't know... from the girls I've met recently, I don't think that they could put out more. Some girl offeed to blow me in the parking lot last night at the bar, no bs. She was a little chunky but with big tits. I was like um, nah I have a gf. She didn't seem to care... I don't think the problem is lack of sex.

What if she looked like Megan Foxx...but with bigger tits?

A. She wouldn't have put out.
OR
B. You would have been out some sperm today.

Think about it.

[Gas Man]

Originally Posted by Trip

I agree woman who put out too easy are not relationship material. I don't consider not putting out early in a relationship playing hard to get. More like responsibility. When I hear hard to get I think of the fucked up mind games some people play. I was never a big woman chaser because I lack a social capacity for such things. Yea I am a geek and fully aware of those limitations. LOL

This is true... still can't figure out how you wrangled in a girl like your wife!

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Yea I know how people perceive me but in all seriousness, you will never deal with someone more straightforward relationship wise than me. I will tell you exactly what I want/need from you. If you are down with that great, if not well there's always the next girl.

This is the best way. Keep it straight forward and simple.

[HurricaneHeather]

I'm too impatient for playing any kind of games, especially hard to get. Every first date I ever went on, I asked him out. I have no self control really, so if I want something, there will be no doubt in anyone's mind what I want.

[the chi]

Originally Posted by Ducati Diva

Why play stupid games???? Don't be a "Lindsey" and walk around flashing your kitty to the world, don't be a stuck up bitch who is to good for the world, don't try to play stupid games and be coy, just be yourself. If someone likes you they'll call if not they won't. Games are stupid and usually blow up in your face!

AWESOME!! I totally agree! And if they arent calling, you dont want them either!

Originally Posted by neebelung

I think the not being available for their every whim is less about playing hard to get, and more about having a life of her own. If a girl (or a guy) is too readily available, it might come across as they don't have friends/interests/life of their own. That might make the interested party think "well crap, if i get involved with them, they're going to suffocate me.... I'll have no time to myself." and it goes both ways... A guy that's too readily available would srnd up the same red flags, IMO.

Also very true. Being available for someones every whim and every phone call does send signals that you arent your own person and you dont have your own things to do. You can hang out with someone often and be available to them (showing interest) without coming across as deperate, stalking or needy.

As for Trip, I bet ya he snagged A because he is exactly the same person all the time, he knows who he is and what he wants. There is nothing more attractive to a mature woman than a guy who is 100% himself and comfortable with being who he is. (aka Confidence)

So all you guys with self image issues, remember that!! No matter if you are losing your hair, have a belly, lack a tan, arent an Abercrombie model-if you are confident in yourself and who you are, those things dont matter and arent even noticeable to the woman who really wants to be with you.