Cheating - Page 5

askmrjesus · 11-07-2009, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by azoomm

Without that trust - our relationship is really equal to nothing. I don't know that it would survive without trust.

Or batteries...

JC

Dragonpaco · 11-07-2009, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Tsunami

Was it that crazy girl you used to post about in CF?

hell yes it was.

Tsunami · 11-07-2009, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Dragonpaco

hell yes it was.

Wow she was the one that cheated? After all those stories of paranoia and jealously with you? Projecting huh?

Oh well glad you got rid of that nutjob.

dReWpY · 11-07-2009, 09:06 PM

i lolz

neebelung · 11-07-2009, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by lauralynne

it's fine to say "oh HELL no - he/she's GONE!" but the reality might be different.

My instinct is to say "hell no" but realistically? I have no idea what I would do. And I hope to never find out.

I agree 100%.

t-homo · 11-07-2009, 10:59 PM

It depends on the relationship and how serious is it. Most of the time, who gives a shit, but if I were engaged or married, it may be a little different.

Amorok · 11-08-2009, 01:28 AM

When I was younger I'd have said he'll no, but at this point in my life I just can't be that black and white. It would be hard to stay with Ulu if she cheated but I'm not willing to say it would be over right away, I have Poot to think about. I can say though that shed probably leave in a few months just because I'd make her miserable. Not so good at the forgiving. Bu depending on circumstances I might be willing to try and work it out.

Rangerscott · 11-08-2009, 02:10 AM

There's no excuse for cheating. If you're unhappy, then end the relationship.

I hate the BS about, "Well I just had to see if..........."

There is no excuse.

Dragonpaco · 11-08-2009, 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Tsunami

Wow she was the one that cheated? After all those stories of paranoia and jealously with you? Projecting huh?

Oh well glad you got rid of that nutjob.

yeah turned out that was to cover up what she was doing. i was blind to the whole thing.but i'm better off alone now then i was with her draingmy credit rating to pay for her habit and her hotels.

Fleck750 · 11-08-2009, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Rangerscott

There's no excuse for cheating. If you're unhappy, then end the relationship.

I hate the BS about, "Well I just had to see if..........."

There is no excuse.

That was the condition in my case.

Told him if he's that unhappy, then he needs to tell me, even if we can't fix what's wrong. Just don't go out and screw someone, then come home to me acting like nothings wrong. Man up, tell what's wrong, and if it's unfixable, somebody should leave.

And yes, the trust is gone.

View Poll Results: Would you continue a relationship with a cheater?
Hell no!	43	71.67%
Yes but with "conditions"	9	15.00%
Yes - who cares	2	3.33%
What's good enough for Tater is good enough for me.	6	10.00%
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11-07-2009, 10:59 PM	#46
t-homo WSB Champion Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Springfield, MO Posts: 7,146	It depends on the relationship and how serious is it. Most of the time, who gives a shit, but if I were engaged or married, it may be a little different.

11-08-2009, 01:28 AM	#47
Amorok Issukangitok Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Biloxi, MS Moto: '06 Suzuki Boulevard C50T Posts: 2,225	When I was younger I'd have said he'll no, but at this point in my life I just can't be that black and white. It would be hard to stay with Ulu if she cheated but I'm not willing to say it would be over right away, I have Poot to think about. I can say though that shed probably leave in a few months just because I'd make her miserable. Not so good at the forgiving. Bu depending on circumstances I might be willing to try and work it out.

11-08-2009, 02:10 AM	#48
Rangerscott Viff6N Mutated Warrior Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Texas Moto: '01 Honda VFR 800 & '09 ER-6N Posts: 8,704	There's no excuse for cheating. If you're unhappy, then end the relationship. I hate the BS about, "Well I just had to see if..........." There is no excuse.