is pr0n still innocent if...

[Fleck750]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Agreed, if you're just looking for attention and leg humping then there's possibly something wrong with your relationship to begin with.

And everything is great in a relationship if the gf is blowing guys in front of you?

[Captain Morgan]

Originally Posted by Fleck750

And everything is great in a relationship if the gf is blowing guys in front of you?

I'm going to have to come to Tigger's defense. A LOT of couples are swingers. A lot of guys like watching "live" porn. Personally, I've never let my g/f mess with another dude, but I've known several guys who were willing to share their g/f or wife. I had no problem with it. Granted, I was on the receiving end, but still.

Also, Tigger didn't say he watched, but even if he did, so what? People like different things.

[neebelung]

Originally Posted by Captain Morgan

I'm going to have to come to Tigger's defense. A LOT of couples are swingers. A lot of guys like watching "live" porn. Personally, I've never let my g/f mess with another dude, but I've known several guys who were willing to share their g/f or wife. I had no problem with it. Granted, I was on the receiving end, but still.

Also, Tigger didn't say he watched, but even if he did, so what? People like different things.

I agree as well. It's not my thing, but swinging works for some couples. As long as all parties involved are on the same page however, I'm not gonna judge.

[Cutty72]

So... are we going to get more handbra pics or no?

[Adeptus_Minor]

Originally Posted by lauralynne

If it bothers your husband, it's an issue. It's not about what other people think is right or wrong. Sorry, but if he objects to you showing your naughties to other people, he has every right. He doesn't own you, but his feelings should be one of your primary considerations. Put the shoe on the other foot.

Agreed.
Now, if it was taken & posted before the current relationship began and it's just "out there" (because we all know nothing can truly be removed from the internet), then

Originally Posted by pauldun170

as for itgirl..
Still waiting on pics

This.

[Captain Morgan]

Oh, and regarding Kim's situation, I think we really need more info. Is this a guy you've known for some time? Is it someone your husband knows? Are you e-mailing these pics to more than one person? Are you just posting pics on the net? Or are you hosting a website where you do webcam shows?

[Mr Lefty]

IMO if you're in a relationship, it's not ok... unless your SO says they're fine with it.

as far as I'm concerned... it shows absolutely no respect...

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by Captain Morgan

Oh, and regarding Kim's situation, I think we really need more info. Is this a guy you've known for some time? Is it someone your husband knows? Are you e-mailing these pics to more than one person? Are you just posting pics on the net? Or are you hosting a website where you do webcam shows?

wow, you're thorough. no on all accounts.

i used to have real issues with porn. i thought it was just awful and wanted my husband having nothing to do with it. the girls may have been anonymous, but the feeling of betrayal was still the same for me. it was still my husband viewing another person naked. and the more i forbid it the more he wanted it. but now i believe naked chicks are just naked chicks. and whether it's the neighbor viewing them, a guy at work, someone on the internetz etc., it's all about one thing...skin. doesn't matter who's really in the pics. maybe i've just grown into my sexuality slightly with age or maybe i just don't care anymore. i dunno. but porn is porn. that i believe. it's just pictures, after all. and how can anyone say otherwise if they themselves view porn? just my thinking. but like i said, maybe i am just making excuses to condone my actions. i dunno.

[neebelung]

Originally Posted by itgirl

wow, you're thorough. no on all accounts.

i used to have real issues with porn. i thought it was just awful and wanted my husband having nothing to do with it. the more i forbid it the more he wanted it. but now i believe naked chicks are just naked chicks. and whether it's the neighbor viewing them, a guy at work, someone on the internetz etc., it's all about one thing...skin. doesn't matter who's really in the pics. maybe i've just grown into my sexuality slightly with age or maybe i just don't care anymore. i dunno. but porn is porn. that i believe. it's just pictures, after all. and how can anyone say otherwise if they themselves view porn? just my thinking. but like i said, maybe i am just making excuses to condone my actions. i dunno.

To you, it might be "just pictures," but as has been said repeatedly, your feeling on the matter isn't the only one that counts: your husband's feelings need to be taken into account as well....

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by neebelung

To you, it might be "just pictures," but as has been said repeatedly, your feeling on the matter isn't the only one that counts: your husband's feelings need to be taken into account as well....

yeah, i suppose you're right. i guess i still get bothered by the fact that he never consulted me or my feelings when he took his matters into his own hands, so to speak. i guess that's where my double-standard theory comes from. it appears turnabout isn't really fair play afterall.