How many SO's have you lived with? - Page 9

asdgirl · 04-13-2009, 03:14 PM

2. The ex-boyfriend (together for 11 years) and the current husband. Actually moved in with (okay, he moved in with me) the hubby the day after we met. He lived w/ me on a couch in my roomie's loft apt for 2 weeks while we looked for a place to live. We didn't know what was going to happen but we were both homeless so we had no choice! Seemed it worked out okay

neebelung · 04-13-2009, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Homeslice

Everyone is different, but for me I can't see marrying anyone without having lived with them first. There are way too many little idiosyncracies and pet peeves that crop up when 2 people share the same space 24/7. You think you know everything about someone but you really don't. Better to discover that stuff before the wedding rather than after.

I agree 100%.

3 for me... College/post-college boyfriend (living together was what made me realize OH FUCK NO, can't do this shit.....

). Dated 4+ years, lived together the last 6 months of that.

Ex-husband (we got engaged either right before or right after we moved in together).

And then Chris (we did live together for a couple years before we got engaged, and since we both lived through it, we decided we might as well make it permanent

)

NONE_too_SOFT · 04-13-2009, 04:25 PM

This is a shady question. I've had some girlfriends, but i wouldnt consider any of them really significant.

I dont think i'll live with my wife if/when I get married.

SoFlaSV · 04-13-2009, 08:30 PM

3

The first 2 I threw out of the house after a couple of months, the third one I married.

Should have thrown her out too.

Melissue76 · 04-13-2009, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Trip

...............My wife is lucky I live with her.

AFM...Only 1, and I lived with him for about 3 years before we were married. & I totally agree w/Homeslice here. Although I think we would've been fine if we waited until we were married. ?!

04-13-2009, 03:14 PM	#81
asdgirl Canyon Carver Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Atlanta, GA Moto: 70cc Zuma Posts: 308	2. The ex-boyfriend (together for 11 years) and the current husband. Actually moved in with (okay, he moved in with me) the hubby the day after we met. He lived w/ me on a couch in my roomie's loft apt for 2 weeks while we looked for a place to live. We didn't know what was going to happen but we were both homeless so we had no choice! Seemed it worked out okay

04-13-2009, 04:25 PM	#83
NONE_too_SOFT Chopstix / \ Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Akron OH Moto: 03 CBR RR Posts: 5,350	This is a shady question. I've had some girlfriends, but i wouldnt consider any of them really significant. I dont think i'll live with my wife if/when I get married.

04-13-2009, 08:30 PM	#84
SoFlaSV Guinness Bitches... Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Coconut Creek, Fl Moto: '00 SV650 Posts: 505	3 The first 2 I threw out of the house after a couple of months, the third one I married. Should have thrown her out too.