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Old 10-25-2009, 06:26 PM   #11
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Not really much to consider. He a cheat ( both to his wife and you ) and a lier.

Drop him and his psycho wife like a hot rock & don't look back.

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Old 10-25-2009, 06:31 PM   #12
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Wow. Lots of words. It's almost like you have to convince yourself of the list of reasons why to run away. I've been there - it's sad, really. I mean - YOU have invested emotions, time and energy into the relationship that has failed.

That said, walk away. I wouldn't even bother explaining it - just walk away. Or, maybe punch him in the junk with a... "YOU KNOW WHY"
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Old 10-25-2009, 08:26 PM   #13
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Get rid of him. Think about it, if a girlfriends sucked half as much you'd dump her right away. This guy isn't contributing anything to you, and you aren't really helping him. Cut all ties, you'll be better off.
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Old 10-25-2009, 08:39 PM   #14
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everyone else said it. there's no saving someone like that. he clearly doesn't give a rat's ass about anyone. before you dump them both, though, go back over and undo the fixing to the water heater.
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Old 10-25-2009, 09:17 PM   #15
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Wow, I told him how pissed I am and his response was:

"Is this going to affect pool league?"

Yeah, time to cut ties. I'm going to continue the pool league only because his dad is the team captain and I made a commitment to his dad that I'd play the whole season back when it started. I'm going to honor that commitment.
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Old 10-25-2009, 10:40 PM   #16
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Echoing what everyone else said about cutting all ties with this douche.
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Old 10-25-2009, 10:54 PM   #17
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Wow, I told him how pissed I am and his response was:

"Is this going to affect pool league?"

Yeah, time to cut ties. I'm going to continue the pool league only because his dad is the team captain and I made a commitment to his dad that I'd play the whole season back when it started. I'm going to honor that commitment.
Okay but going forward, cut ties with every non-essential tie to him. Treat this like any relationship breakup... and once he realizes how much you did for him and how much he misses the stuff you did for him (not you), do not take him back regardless of what he says or promises he makes!!!
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Old 10-25-2009, 11:25 PM   #18
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I've done it before and it really sucks. You don't realize how much they infected your life until you let go.

One thing I had to remember was that the only person whose happiness I am ultimately responsible for is MINE and mine alone.
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Old 10-26-2009, 09:10 AM   #19
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Some of this stuff didn't show up till about 2 or 3 years ago, but the majority has been in the last year. The cheating on the wife has been going on a long time. While I didn't like it, I didn't feel it was my place. The other stuff started happening slowly. I let things slide at first because we'd been friends for so long, but as you can see, things just keep getting worse. I think you all are right. Time to cut loose.
The moment that he decided to use you as an alibi, it was your place to comment.
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Old 10-26-2009, 11:12 AM   #20
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Douchebag with a capital D. I usually put garbage to the curb at the first instance of douchebaggery. It's hard to let friends go but lets face it, he really isn't a friend.
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